I'm in such a mess and don't know what I'm supposed to do about it.
I will try to start at the beginning but if it gets in a muddle please forgive me.
My ex-husband walked out 15 years ago, leaving me with debt and a small child. I managed to get a mortage though to provide a roof for us, it needed (and still does) alot of work to be done on it.
For a few years I was in a business partnership which folded and left me with more debt, I was using cards and loans to just live. Foolish I know now but couldn't survive any other way at the time.
Needless to say I've been chased for the debts and have been ducking and diving for all these years, so much so that they have fallen off my credit file despite me not having paid them back, I've been trying to go through the unenforceability route but so far no luck and still being chased.
Met a lovely guy 10 years ago who knew I was in a mess financially and in fear of losing my house, he kindly bought it off me at same as I'd paid but let me continue living in the house. Had tried to claim housing benefit originally but as I'd owned/lived in it previously I wasn't allowed to claim. This did cause problems but managed to work around it as there was equity in the property.
He lived here for a short time years ago but couldn't get work so moved back to his home area, though we continued to go out together.
As I've had bad credit files for years I've been unable to buy anything for the house, so he kindly let me use his credit and everything I've bought over the last few years has been solely in his name just incase baliffs turned up at the door. It meant I didn't own anything and so they wouldn't be able to take items that didn't belong to me.
Last year I lost my last remaining parent and inherited property which I told the benefits about immediately, but as I had nothing to actually live on they told me to continue claiming as a lone parent.
Earlier this year he was able to get his job transferred and has now moved in with me. I notified the benefits straight away that my circumstances had changed.
However, now they have decided that we were living together since 2004 despite the fact that he wasn't here and I was on my own.
I've been called in for a number of interviews under caution and have now been sent a date to attend court early next year with them stating that the overpayment is over £50k and this then starts the chain of claims against me for council tax as well for £6k.
If he had lived here I wouldn't mind holding my hands up and admitting it but I've been a single parent for all this time, struggling on my own and then having a baby in December 2007, with the only help coming from my eldest child.
I've no idea what I'm supposed to do
I will try to start at the beginning but if it gets in a muddle please forgive me.
My ex-husband walked out 15 years ago, leaving me with debt and a small child. I managed to get a mortage though to provide a roof for us, it needed (and still does) alot of work to be done on it.
For a few years I was in a business partnership which folded and left me with more debt, I was using cards and loans to just live. Foolish I know now but couldn't survive any other way at the time.
Needless to say I've been chased for the debts and have been ducking and diving for all these years, so much so that they have fallen off my credit file despite me not having paid them back, I've been trying to go through the unenforceability route but so far no luck and still being chased.
Met a lovely guy 10 years ago who knew I was in a mess financially and in fear of losing my house, he kindly bought it off me at same as I'd paid but let me continue living in the house. Had tried to claim housing benefit originally but as I'd owned/lived in it previously I wasn't allowed to claim. This did cause problems but managed to work around it as there was equity in the property.
He lived here for a short time years ago but couldn't get work so moved back to his home area, though we continued to go out together.
As I've had bad credit files for years I've been unable to buy anything for the house, so he kindly let me use his credit and everything I've bought over the last few years has been solely in his name just incase baliffs turned up at the door. It meant I didn't own anything and so they wouldn't be able to take items that didn't belong to me.
Last year I lost my last remaining parent and inherited property which I told the benefits about immediately, but as I had nothing to actually live on they told me to continue claiming as a lone parent.
Earlier this year he was able to get his job transferred and has now moved in with me. I notified the benefits straight away that my circumstances had changed.
However, now they have decided that we were living together since 2004 despite the fact that he wasn't here and I was on my own.
I've been called in for a number of interviews under caution and have now been sent a date to attend court early next year with them stating that the overpayment is over £50k and this then starts the chain of claims against me for council tax as well for £6k.
If he had lived here I wouldn't mind holding my hands up and admitting it but I've been a single parent for all this time, struggling on my own and then having a baby in December 2007, with the only help coming from my eldest child.
I've no idea what I'm supposed to do
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