Hi All
Im after a bit of advice. I have just come through a divorce and didnt do well. I have £20000 of un-secured debt and i cannot afford to repay it as well as have a normal life.
I also now pay maintenance for my two kids. The debt are two loans, credit card, overdraft and my parents. The overdraft is 0% so is the credit card until july 2014.
One of the loans is in joint names with my ex wife, the court ordered me to pay £8000 and she pays the rest she paid her side but i cannot borrow the funds to clear it and now im concerned im going to get in trouble for breaching a consent order ! This also means we are financially linked.
I have done some research and thought a DMP would probably be the best idea. I am still in the process of looking through the pages on here but its quite confusing can i do a DMP and not effect the ex wifes rating ?? can i disassociate from her in another way ?
I thought stepchange looked okay until they recommended i still paid only £50 less then what im paying now !! Im probably going to give it ago myself. If anyone could post up any template letters and financial calculators that might help i would be really grateful.
Thanks guys all the best
Im after a bit of advice. I have just come through a divorce and didnt do well. I have £20000 of un-secured debt and i cannot afford to repay it as well as have a normal life.
I also now pay maintenance for my two kids. The debt are two loans, credit card, overdraft and my parents. The overdraft is 0% so is the credit card until july 2014.
One of the loans is in joint names with my ex wife, the court ordered me to pay £8000 and she pays the rest she paid her side but i cannot borrow the funds to clear it and now im concerned im going to get in trouble for breaching a consent order ! This also means we are financially linked.
I have done some research and thought a DMP would probably be the best idea. I am still in the process of looking through the pages on here but its quite confusing can i do a DMP and not effect the ex wifes rating ?? can i disassociate from her in another way ?
I thought stepchange looked okay until they recommended i still paid only £50 less then what im paying now !! Im probably going to give it ago myself. If anyone could post up any template letters and financial calculators that might help i would be really grateful.
Thanks guys all the best
Comment