Hi Guys
A bit of background first I guess.
I am 42, single and living on my own with mortgage and the usual bills. Dues to various circumstances over the years, house disasters, redundancies, car written off, more house disasters and finally no pay rise in 5 years, I have gradually relied on credit to make ends meet, pay for food, petrol to get to work etc. I have been trying, my expenditure has been pared way back. But, basically I have been borrowing from Peter to pay Paul.
About 2 years ago I considered a DMP but then I got a casual job which, just about, allowed me to make ends meet (but quality of life has been non existent). Over the last year my casual shifts have reduced from 4 days a month to 0-1 day a month, if I am lucky, and my safety net is now gone.
The final straw was Friday when my work emailed all staff to say that, even if you had opted out of your pension (which I have temporarily while I had to buy a new car after my old car, which was fully paid off (very old but reliable) was written of by an idiot driver) you would be put back in, effective this Wednesday. That meant that I would have roughly £90-£100 less income than I have now. So that means literally no spending money and my food money cut back. (Apparently I can opt out again afterwards, but in the meantime I wonder what do I live on in February?). My finance officer is trying to see if there is an alternate solution, but I may have to ask my parents (in their 70s and not well off) for help next month.
It was the kick up the backside that I needed. Much as I have tried to keep going, despite all my efforts, I am worse off that I was 2 years ago, and my debts are only slightly reduced. I can't keep worrying about how I will manage each month and I need to know that I have a future where this is not the major worry in my life. So I took the afternoon off and registered with step change. Following a lot of information and discussions, I am probably going to proceed with a DMP. I will be looking at the paperwork this next week (but not before I consider all options (thanks for that pointer guys).
I am a bit worried about it all but mostly about the bank account switch. Specifically:
a. actually managing to get a new bank account arranged.
b. when to transfer my accounts
c. when to tell my current bank
d. how to time leaving my current bank so that the overdraft is left behind.
I feel a bit more positive thinking that in 5 years time I will be out the other side and that in the next 5 years I will get to a point where I have a liveable budget and can afford to heat my house again. (Step change factor in heating costs, where I have been living in a cold house for the last few years (with damage done to the house because of it - it is a vicious cycle).
But I have to admit that it is a very fightening time and I dread the next few months whilst things are being swiched and put in place.
I would welcome any advice. Especially from anyone who needed to switch bank account and leave an outstanding overdraft behind.
Thanks,
Jo.
A bit of background first I guess.
I am 42, single and living on my own with mortgage and the usual bills. Dues to various circumstances over the years, house disasters, redundancies, car written off, more house disasters and finally no pay rise in 5 years, I have gradually relied on credit to make ends meet, pay for food, petrol to get to work etc. I have been trying, my expenditure has been pared way back. But, basically I have been borrowing from Peter to pay Paul.
About 2 years ago I considered a DMP but then I got a casual job which, just about, allowed me to make ends meet (but quality of life has been non existent). Over the last year my casual shifts have reduced from 4 days a month to 0-1 day a month, if I am lucky, and my safety net is now gone.
The final straw was Friday when my work emailed all staff to say that, even if you had opted out of your pension (which I have temporarily while I had to buy a new car after my old car, which was fully paid off (very old but reliable) was written of by an idiot driver) you would be put back in, effective this Wednesday. That meant that I would have roughly £90-£100 less income than I have now. So that means literally no spending money and my food money cut back. (Apparently I can opt out again afterwards, but in the meantime I wonder what do I live on in February?). My finance officer is trying to see if there is an alternate solution, but I may have to ask my parents (in their 70s and not well off) for help next month.
It was the kick up the backside that I needed. Much as I have tried to keep going, despite all my efforts, I am worse off that I was 2 years ago, and my debts are only slightly reduced. I can't keep worrying about how I will manage each month and I need to know that I have a future where this is not the major worry in my life. So I took the afternoon off and registered with step change. Following a lot of information and discussions, I am probably going to proceed with a DMP. I will be looking at the paperwork this next week (but not before I consider all options (thanks for that pointer guys).
I am a bit worried about it all but mostly about the bank account switch. Specifically:
a. actually managing to get a new bank account arranged.
b. when to transfer my accounts
c. when to tell my current bank
d. how to time leaving my current bank so that the overdraft is left behind.
I feel a bit more positive thinking that in 5 years time I will be out the other side and that in the next 5 years I will get to a point where I have a liveable budget and can afford to heat my house again. (Step change factor in heating costs, where I have been living in a cold house for the last few years (with damage done to the house because of it - it is a vicious cycle).
But I have to admit that it is a very fightening time and I dread the next few months whilst things are being swiched and put in place.
I would welcome any advice. Especially from anyone who needed to switch bank account and leave an outstanding overdraft behind.
Thanks,
Jo.
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