Quick hello

[Susie]

Just a quick hello while I have internet access,

sorry for not being around for a while but after moving house I have very limited internet access and its on dial up so not the best. The people I am staying with have no idea of all this so I have to be very careful as well and its not good.
I have nobody I can talk to about the debt as they make their feelings very clear about people who use credit cards (yes I am fully aware that I am a failure for having had them) so if they knew about this they would freak

Just very tired and starting to worry again, looking forward to the day I can stick my head down and sleep.

Anyhow, enough of my woes, hope everyone is getting along well with the dire weather and that you all have a good festive season, especially the good lord Niddy ;K6
I am not online a lot so forgive me for not posting more.

All the best tto all of you

[LooLoo]

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Ah Susie...... well at least you know where we are when you do have access.....

Don't feel a failure........ we all been there and done it.

Take care and I hope you have a lovely christmas xxxxx

[swanfan]

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Hiya Susie :hello

Nooo you're not a failure & sorry the people you're staying with are not very understanding.

We are here to listen when you can get on line.

Enjoy your Christmas. :xm40

[Angelic]

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Hey Susie,

Some people just don't get the reason(s) behind someone getting into debt so I'm sure they're not being bastards on purpose, they just won't be fully aware of the reason(s) you ended up in the financial situation you're in just now.

Don't worry about feeling like a failure because you're not, you were just mis-guided

I hope you have a great xmas and we'll be here waiting to see more of you in the New Year!

[confused76]

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hi there
sorry you can't confide in the people you are staying with but as said above, we'll be here when you can come back. meanwhile, try not to worry over the Christmas period and hopefully see you very soon xx

[Susie]

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They don't mean to be making me feel bad as they don't know about it, just that they make their feelings very clear about things! They are off for a shop now so I am havimng a quick sneak on. Site looks really good, lot of work has been going on while I have been away.

Thanks for the good wishes, hopefully things will improve in the new year and I can be around more.

[5corpio]

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Your not a failure Susie - thats the first thing in peoples mind (i always thought and took it upon me that i was a failure).At the end of the day No one can say, or predict to say behind that the person is a failure (The Govern' a bit different though, with their failures)

Susie! At the end of the day, we ALL learn from mistakes, 'where here, to be tried and tested - and learn from our mistakes' Things don't come come gift wrapped.

A 2010 has been a bad year for Many or even ALL, The thing is too look forward to the love ones, Friends around you as next year is going to be even better for you 2011 marks a better year, 'throw the old out and bring in the New'

i struggles alike many around. i've been redundant for the last 10 months and took upon myself that i was a failure (couldn't get a job even working in a fast food or driving a van from a medium oka job that i i was currently in), thought that i may loose my OH being a failure (and such other)

All things comes at a stride, Things will improve next Year Susie (as you say), Have a good Xmas and a good New Year in for 2011.

We'll all be here next year and the year after (unless Niddy eats all the mince pies and stella before Santa)

[philnicandamy]

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Hey susie i'll not repeat the excellent advice & words of the other guys...we're here for you when you can

[billypre]

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Hey susie i'll not repeat the excellent advice & words of the other guys...we're here for you when you can

[Angelic]

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Hey susie i'll not repeat the excellent advice & words of the other guys...we're here for you when you can

I think I might love you ;K6 Just don't tell Swanny, he might get a wee bit jealous :quiet

[billypre]

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I'm glad someone appreciates my weird humour

[Angelic]

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Dunno about anyone else but yes, I definitely appreciate it!!

[di30]

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Hi Susie

Hope your well honey and your certainly no failure, so keep that chin up babe.

We are here for you any time and as always.

[Susie]

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Thanks everyone, I am feeling a bit more positive after being on here (and having a couple of replies to send out).

The people I am with at the moment are out doing the visiting and shopping, they are lovely people but just don't realise that what they say could be applied to me.

Hope you all have a great christmas and we all have a better 2011 free for all

[di30]

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Bless you.

You too have a good one! XXX