Re: Child Support Agency 2003 scheme Child Maintenance new scheme for cases after 25th Nov 2013
The very best thing your son can go into the Tribunal with is the truth..plain and simple.
Cutting corners,leaving out salient facts because they don't 'sound good' is only going to tie him up in knots and if the Tribunal get the slightest whiff of a lie,they'll be right on it,especially given what the Tribunal is about.
To be blunt..'feelings' have no place where this matter is concerned. He is 50% responsible for the child as is she..and as they cannot be amicable regarding the financial side of bringing their child up they have allowed strangers to make the decisions for them..and they must abide by those decisions whether they agree with them or not..Let's put it this way..one of them is not going to like the outcome,she won't if she gets less than she thinks she should,he won't if she gets more than he thinks she's entitled to but that's the risk you take when you allow a 'third party' to intervene.
It's quite possible the 60k was 'pillow talk'....maybe he 'boosted' his income to impress her,,we've all been guilty of saying stuff to impress a boy/girlfriend.....only he can answer that.
She certainly seems adamant that he isn't being honest about his finances so my best advice is :-
Follow the Directions absolutely.
Your son needs to do an absolutely 100% totally honest list of his assets and finances (and income) and let the Tribunal see that ,far from being a deadbeat Dad,he is committed to allowing the Tribunal/CMS set a fair figure for maintenance for his child which he will pay diligently.all he is asking for is the £50pw he pays Mum2 to be factored into the final figure as per the CMS's own rules.
The very best thing your son can go into the Tribunal with is the truth..plain and simple.
Cutting corners,leaving out salient facts because they don't 'sound good' is only going to tie him up in knots and if the Tribunal get the slightest whiff of a lie,they'll be right on it,especially given what the Tribunal is about.
To be blunt..'feelings' have no place where this matter is concerned. He is 50% responsible for the child as is she..and as they cannot be amicable regarding the financial side of bringing their child up they have allowed strangers to make the decisions for them..and they must abide by those decisions whether they agree with them or not..Let's put it this way..one of them is not going to like the outcome,she won't if she gets less than she thinks she should,he won't if she gets more than he thinks she's entitled to but that's the risk you take when you allow a 'third party' to intervene.
It's quite possible the 60k was 'pillow talk'....maybe he 'boosted' his income to impress her,,we've all been guilty of saying stuff to impress a boy/girlfriend.....only he can answer that.
She certainly seems adamant that he isn't being honest about his finances so my best advice is :-
Follow the Directions absolutely.
Your son needs to do an absolutely 100% totally honest list of his assets and finances (and income) and let the Tribunal see that ,far from being a deadbeat Dad,he is committed to allowing the Tribunal/CMS set a fair figure for maintenance for his child which he will pay diligently.all he is asking for is the £50pw he pays Mum2 to be factored into the final figure as per the CMS's own rules.
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