youngest moved out today

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So who deleted the leper joke?

[Spent2much]

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Do you put the crucifix in a drawer when you indulge in "naughties", or don't you mind Our Lord watching? blank

no we leave it there , we don't mind the Lord watching he has seen it all

[julian]

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Once a Catholic......

Not naughties if for the procreation of children, in the dark and without any enjoyment.

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Do you put the crucifix in a drawer when you indulge in "naughties", or don't you mind Our Lord watching? blank

[Spent2much]

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PS , hope all you mums have a wonderful day too, thank you so much for the love and concern . It's good to have a moan and i pity those who read my moans lol xxx

[Spent2much]

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Hi S2M for you x

I've only got daughters so I don't know if lads are different or not. My youngest left at 18 5 years ago after yet another row. She was the only one still at home and I was under a lot of stress at work. I came home from work one day and she'd moved out. I didn't have a clue where she'd gone and she wouldn't answer her phone. It turns out she'd gone to stay with friends and then got a live-in job 50 miles away. Fast forward five years and we're great friends, we go to yoga classes together, she was a brilliant help when I had major surgery and she lives with a great lad a few minutes away.

I wouldn't cut your youngest son out of your life. Do you know his address? If so, post his birthday card instead of hoping that he will come to get it. If his girlfriend is such a nightmare he'll soon tire of her and then he'll want his mum.

Sorry you're having trouble with your husband's family? I'm assuming that you think it's them that have thrown a brick through your window? I can't understand the mentality of some people! Why don't you de-activate your fb account for a while, "unfriend" them or just not bother logging on. I've hardly been on fb for months.

Have a lovely Mother's Day away with your eldest son and family x

Thank you , i had de-friended them all on facebook. its funny you should say that about his birthday card because hubby wants to drive and post it through the door as we know where they live and also drop his mail through.

His girlfriend is horrible she sent me a pm calling me mental and that i belong in an asylum , and even said she wouldn't drink a cup of coffee if i made it as i would probably poison her . She called me a liar that my dad is ill and she doesn't really think he has parkinson's. She said i was lazy and can't keep a nice home and that its dirty .

Thing is when she stayed here with my son the bedroom and bathroom was left like a tip when they moved on , i counted about 50 empty loo rolls just piled up on the bathroom floor and there were 10 empty pizza boxes left in the room .

When i had that panic last Saturday my hubby was really upset that it caused me such stress and we re-decorated the room they were in and he laid a new carpet , i finished it off today . This is the picture it isn't very clear , but we moved back in there and its so much better especially with the en-suite , why oh why was i stupid enough to let them have the best room in the house lol

[Pixie]

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Hi S2M for you x

I've only got daughters so I don't know if lads are different or not. My youngest left at 18 5 years ago after yet another row. She was the only one still at home and I was under a lot of stress at work. I came home from work one day and she'd moved out. I didn't have a clue where she'd gone and she wouldn't answer her phone. It turns out she'd gone to stay with friends and then got a live-in job 50 miles away. Fast forward five years and we're great friends, we go to yoga classes together, she was a brilliant help when I had major surgery and she lives with a great lad a few minutes away.

I wouldn't cut your youngest son out of your life. Do you know his address? If so, post his birthday card instead of hoping that he will come to get it. If his girlfriend is such a nightmare he'll soon tire of her and then he'll want his mum.

Sorry you're having trouble with your husband's family? I'm assuming that you think it's them that have thrown a brick through your window? I can't understand the mentality of some people! Why don't you de-activate your fb account for a while, "unfriend" them or just not bother logging on. I've hardly been on fb for months.

Have a lovely Mother's Day away with your eldest son and family x

[Spent2much]

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They didn't ask to be born. So they say. But they certainly make us run around for the rest of their lives.

Enjoy what you can, hopefully things will resolve in the very near future.

A son is a son till he takes him a wife ......

I thought that had passed when son moved out, but now my nephew has arrived to do a college course,(supposed to be looking for place with friends, but never bothered), and has converted the place into a tip. Family issues mean his parents and he are preoccupied and don't wish to add to stress, so just praying for June.

Families!

it is true, although my eldest son is very close to us comes to see us a few times a week with our grandson . His wife is lovely and very caring .
As for the spare rooms , well the two cats have a choice of 3 king beds to sleep on . I'm not planning on having any lodgers i really enjoy the privacy now

[julian]

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They didn't ask to be born. So they say. But they certainly make us run around for the rest of their lives.

Enjoy what you can, hopefully things will resolve in the very near future.

A son is a son till he takes him a wife ......

I thought that had passed when son moved out, but now my nephew has arrived to do a college course,(supposed to be looking for place with friends, but never bothered), and has converted the place into a tip. Family issues mean his parents and he are preoccupied and don't wish to add to stress, so just praying for June.

Families!

[nanna58]

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Totally right Niddy .... But it still worries us mums its our nature. Enjoy your weekend Spent xx

[Spent2much]

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Aaaw how shitty a time you're having. Chin up. Go enjoy yourself with eldest & grandkids and don't let all this nonsense get to you. Sometimes you need to be cruel to be kind. Cut your youngest off. Try just not getting in touch / contacting him and when he sees you're living your life and not as bothered he'll come back. It's what us lads do.

Hi Niddy , long time no see hope you and your family are well . That's exactly what we have done , leaving him to it and although we have had trouble from hubbies side of the family we have been getting on with life still .

In fact the house is peaceful and tidy ha ha , so we are at least enjoying peace

[Never-In-Doubt]

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Aaaw how shitty a time you're having. Chin up. Go enjoy yourself with eldest & grandkids and don't let all this nonsense get to you. Sometimes you need to be cruel to be kind. Cut your youngest off. Try just not getting in touch / contacting him and when he sees you're living your life and not as bothered he'll come back. It's what us lads do.

[Spent2much]

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youngest still not talking to us and seen him once since he moved out . Its his 25th birthday next Wednesday but i doubt he will come for his card .
Another stressful event in the family too from hubbies side , his mum was in hospital and an argument broke out who was going on what evening bla bla bla and his sister phoned him and was effing and blinding down the phone, she also did her usual trick of posting obscenities on facebook , next morning we heard a thud downstairs and our front window had been bricked, it just tipped me over the top with anxiety and i had a massive panic attack where my forehead went all tight and also my eyes and i actually thought my eyes were going to pop out of the sockets and it affected my vision , really scared me .
I don't understand bricking someone's window just because of a disagreement its childish in my opinion

Feel pretty low anyway with my son not speaking or even coming to see me or phone even when i had the flu and bronchitis

On Mother's day we are going away to Nottingham with eldest son his wife and grandson staying in the travelodge so that will be a nice change and i'm looking forward to that . Only £32 for the night

[Spent2much]

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I had this money to get him out of trouble and it does make you feel sick with worry, she was useless.He lives by us now with his 2 boys still worry. But that's being a mum.Try to hold on .... Hugs xx

thank you xx

[PlanB]

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I'll admit to jealousy when my daughter went to live with a bloke and his mother. I felt that she had replaced me She bounced back when the time was right but if I'd seen that woman crossing the street I wouldn't have swerved my car to avoid her at the time.

When she went to live with her new chap I was over the moon. He's perfect in every way. I fact there are some days when I prefer him to her And there's no Substitute Mother involved with this one

It's horrid when they go but you should feel proud of yourself because you've made him independent so he thinks he can manage without you. He'll be back when he wants his washing done!