Hello from a new member.
I have been lurking the various debt forums for a full year as I am in a real mess and decided to join this one as I like the advice Niddy gives and this looks a friendly place.
Some background.
I am self employed IT contractor.
Always managed OK while work was busy and I had lots of cards and kept up with the payments.
Problems started in 2016 when the death of someone close to me caused depression and I was struggling to find more work and was borrowing on one card to pay the next card, you know how it is...
The big problem and turning point was when a direct debit to MBNA bounced and MBNA cancelled my 'for life' promotional low interest rate and put me on standard rate.
my minimum payment on this one card then doubled to more than our mortgage payment. Also at this minimum payment this would never be paid off.
I was in a mess with nearly £50K on cards and not meeting payments and receiving dozens of phone calls to my mobile from card companies collections department while working on site at customers premises and even on a Sunday morning at home, they would phone every number they could find...
I started googling for help and realised the only way out was to stop paying and get defaults to stop the interest as the balances where increasing each month with missed payments.
I was inspired by forum posts by member ' January 2015' I think the name is, a real inspiration to me.
I chose my forum name February17 as that is when I stopped paying most of my cards as was inspired by reading user January 2015 forum posts
The first year of my battle has been interesting with initially lots of calls and letters and then mainly silence for the last few months.
I will add post for each of my cards as I need some help.
I have been lurking the various debt forums for a full year as I am in a real mess and decided to join this one as I like the advice Niddy gives and this looks a friendly place.
Some background.
I am self employed IT contractor.
Always managed OK while work was busy and I had lots of cards and kept up with the payments.
Problems started in 2016 when the death of someone close to me caused depression and I was struggling to find more work and was borrowing on one card to pay the next card, you know how it is...
The big problem and turning point was when a direct debit to MBNA bounced and MBNA cancelled my 'for life' promotional low interest rate and put me on standard rate.
my minimum payment on this one card then doubled to more than our mortgage payment. Also at this minimum payment this would never be paid off.
I was in a mess with nearly £50K on cards and not meeting payments and receiving dozens of phone calls to my mobile from card companies collections department while working on site at customers premises and even on a Sunday morning at home, they would phone every number they could find...
I started googling for help and realised the only way out was to stop paying and get defaults to stop the interest as the balances where increasing each month with missed payments.
I was inspired by forum posts by member ' January 2015' I think the name is, a real inspiration to me.
I chose my forum name February17 as that is when I stopped paying most of my cards as was inspired by reading user January 2015 forum posts
The first year of my battle has been interesting with initially lots of calls and letters and then mainly silence for the last few months.
I will add post for each of my cards as I need some help.
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