Yay more Fun - Housing Association Rental Repossession

[kilasuit]

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SO has always been the most common way to pay rent, since the 90s, as far as I recall...

HA's like Marches and Severnside (another local SHL) have DD's or rent payment cards (I hate all forms of these type of cards as they waste so much time queuing up to make use of them)

Although i will be insisting on using SO's for everything that i can. So much easier.

[kilasuit]

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No it's not.

It's about getting what you want, and if that means sleeping with the enemy then just do it

Blimey am I going to have to teach you tactics as well as housing law

Being male that tends not to be an option unfortunately.

[PlanB]

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Jen no offence caused and re-reading my last post I see how it could seem that way. No matter how I look at it thou looks like its giving up against moral beliefs. I think I shall next time be payin via SO as DD has caused problems in the past for me.

No it's not.

It's about getting what you want, and if that means sleeping with the enemy then just do it

Blimey am I going to have to teach you tactics as well as housing law

[kilasuit]

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Jen no offence caused and re-reading my last post I see how it could seem that way. No matter how I look at it thou looks like its giving up against moral beliefs. I think I shall next time be payin via SO as DD has caused problems in the past for me.

[jen_br]

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I don't mean to cause you offence....

But, you may loose the battle you won't loose the war!

[Never-In-Doubt]

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I remember the story of a man who was accused of a crime he did not commit. He had a stark choice; he was remanded in one of Pakistans most notorious prisons (central Prison) and when he got his day in court, after suffering terrorist style torture, he could plead guilty and walk away having done time served or not guilty would earn a 7year stretch.

He chose not guilty and got 7 years.

Dilemmas dilemmas.

My point here is that I'm not going to say what to do cos you're a grown up. My point is to let you know that sometimes, just sometimes it's best to lose the fight but win the battle. Most people in your shoes, with a small child, would do anything to ensure their home was never compromised.

Your pride therefore must take second place.

Do not be an Erik Aude; instead be a man and stop this nonsense and protect your family. Think what this is doing to them....

[cymruambyth]

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I think you are missing the point; yes things may have been handled incorrectly but you need to look at the bigger picture. It would not be an admission of guilt just being practical. If you could settle your finances with the HA then court action would finish and you could follow through with the ombudsman. That way you would hopefully be in a position to find a more suitable place, continue your battle and hopefully win.

[kilasuit]

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Jen & FP you both seem to be saying that I should let it lie but of the show had been on the other foot would they have let a mistake by me lie? No as proved by the fact that they wouldn't negotiate any goodwill gesture on the RA's after their mess up.
Its not about making a point it's about not being walked over like trash because they think they can. It's as simple as that.

[jen_br]

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I agree with FP, Chose your battles very wisely your not just messing with your life you have your family to think of.

[kilasuit]

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Do you mean due to the rent arrears? Because if that's the only thing standing in your way then I'm going to make a radical suggestion which you will hate but at least give it some thought Why not accept McDonalds offer of £2.5k now instead of going to the ET in a year's time (which you may not win) and use that to clear the rent arrears and move to a better place for you, your partner and your little boy and still have some money left over

Sometimes things in life don't happen in the right order, but if that money would give you a fresh start than it's got to be worth considering this option

unfortunately i believe that the offer is no longer available and if it was i would still be pursuing against the HA as dont feel i should have to be paying now for their mistake.

If it had been my mistake then as said i would have had to pay for it in O/D fees at the time. And would have happily paid them so why is it not the same for the HA??

I agree with the amount of arrears since May 21st (when i was dismissed) but prior to that i feel that it was the HA's actions(or lack of) that caused the arrears to build up. They disagree however and Housing Ombudsman wont intervene due to court action so it seems it will only be settled in court.

[PlanB]

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Sorry thats me showing my age a guess.

No it's me showing my age

[kilasuit]

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I had to look up the word "bellend" which you used in that post, and now I rather wish I hadn't

Same here!

As we are in the protected section...

Sorry thats me showing my age a guess.

[PlanB]

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We asked about this in March coming upto the end of the starter tenancy as we made it quite clear we wanted to move.

I feel all the issues are to stop us moving into another SL house either with them or with another SL.

We've seen a load of properties we would have loved to move to with other HA's but have been unable to due to this current predicament.

Do you mean due to the rent arrears? Because if that's the only thing standing in your way then I'm going to make a radical suggestion which you will hate but at least give it some thought Why not accept McDonalds offer of £2.5k now instead of going to the ET in a year's time (which you may not win) and use that to clear the rent arrears and move to a better place for you, your partner and your little boy and still have some money left over

Sometimes things in life don't happen in the right order, but if that money would give you a fresh start than it's got to be worth considering this option

[The Tech Clerk]

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Same here!

As we are in the protected section...

Ohhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

[kilasuit]

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If you don't like living where you are then maybe you could ask the HA for a transfer because they have a lot of property on their books Some HAs won't let you tansfer if you've got rent arrears, but some will and you can carry the arrears forward to your next place Check out their policy on transfers. Because if you don't like them and they don't like you (ASB issues) then it could be a Win Win situation all round

I had to look up the word "bellend" which you used in that post, and now I rather wish I hadn't

We asked about this in March coming upto the end of the starter tenancy as we made it quite clear we wanted to move.

I feel all the issues are to stop us moving into another SL house either with them or with another SL.

We've seen a load of properties we would have loved to move to with other HA's but have been unable to due to this current predicament.