First time poster here so I'm sorry if I'm not supplying the right information. Please let me know and I will add anything I can. For the record I'm posting on behalf of my mother as she's struggling to deal with her debts at the moment.
So, for a little backstory... In 2006 my father left my mother. He was/is an alcoholic so ran up some credit card debts but as part of the divorce mum got the house and ALL the debts.
Dad was meant to pay maintenance for his children but only did for six months and then skipped town to Africa. During these 6 months mum got a consolidation loan from Barclays. Soon after Dad's payments stopped Mum defaulted on the loan and she has been in a DMP paying £1 since about 2007.
Since 2007 she's been paying off what she can but has been in a DMP with:
- M&S (credit card) £8,000
- Barclays (loan) £14,500
The problem is that the debts are having a massive effect of her mental and physical health. they've cause depression, anxiety and digestive problem all recognised by the GP.
In the last few months I have written to both M&S and Barclays about her situation. M&S actually agree to write off all of the remaining balance on grounds that it would be unethical to pursue it.
Barclays however have been horrible. After weeks on the phone they finally put us in touch with a specialist team who asked from proof of her illnesses to which we sent a letter from the GP detailing the conditions above and a budget which shows she cannot ever pay off the debt on her current salary. They declined to write it off and asked second time for proof of illness and fobbed us off some more.
Since then I've phoned them asking to reconsider with an offer of £500 against the £14,500 debt which is know is not a lot but it is old debt and it's making her very sick. I assumed Barclays would have similar compassion to M&S but they seem not to want to budge. I have not heard back about their decision but I will assume that it will be a no this time. (I will keep you updated!)
This week I have also sent of a CAA request with £1 to Barclays to see if it's enforceable.
For transparency she does have a few other credit cards (2 santander £450+£450) (1 barclaycard £2500) but these are all up to date and we're trying to get them down. It's just the large barclays loan that I need to help with. Do you have any advice on what we should do?
She simply isn't in a position to just pay it off.
She owns her house (with an 80k mortgage still on it) and no real assets.
Many thanks for all your help!
So, for a little backstory... In 2006 my father left my mother. He was/is an alcoholic so ran up some credit card debts but as part of the divorce mum got the house and ALL the debts.
Dad was meant to pay maintenance for his children but only did for six months and then skipped town to Africa. During these 6 months mum got a consolidation loan from Barclays. Soon after Dad's payments stopped Mum defaulted on the loan and she has been in a DMP paying £1 since about 2007.
Since 2007 she's been paying off what she can but has been in a DMP with:
- M&S (credit card) £8,000
- Barclays (loan) £14,500
The problem is that the debts are having a massive effect of her mental and physical health. they've cause depression, anxiety and digestive problem all recognised by the GP.
In the last few months I have written to both M&S and Barclays about her situation. M&S actually agree to write off all of the remaining balance on grounds that it would be unethical to pursue it.
Barclays however have been horrible. After weeks on the phone they finally put us in touch with a specialist team who asked from proof of her illnesses to which we sent a letter from the GP detailing the conditions above and a budget which shows she cannot ever pay off the debt on her current salary. They declined to write it off and asked second time for proof of illness and fobbed us off some more.
Since then I've phoned them asking to reconsider with an offer of £500 against the £14,500 debt which is know is not a lot but it is old debt and it's making her very sick. I assumed Barclays would have similar compassion to M&S but they seem not to want to budge. I have not heard back about their decision but I will assume that it will be a no this time. (I will keep you updated!)
This week I have also sent of a CAA request with £1 to Barclays to see if it's enforceable.
For transparency she does have a few other credit cards (2 santander £450+£450) (1 barclaycard £2500) but these are all up to date and we're trying to get them down. It's just the large barclays loan that I need to help with. Do you have any advice on what we should do?
She simply isn't in a position to just pay it off.
She owns her house (with an 80k mortgage still on it) and no real assets.
Many thanks for all your help!
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