probable repossession

[cymruambyth]

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Hi I'm glad to hear that you have made a decision that you are happy with and that suits your circumstances. Good luck with saving for your first real home.

[MrsD]

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whatever you decide is best for you
this wasn't your fight so no point in losing sleep and tranquillity over it

I'd pack a bag or two for you but ahhh just too far.......................(I'm a rubbish packer anyway)

[diddlydee]

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Hi confused, and congratulations on your decision.

Anxiety is a terrible thing which can make you seriously ill. You have to put your health first.

I wish you happiness, whereever you may be

[confused76]

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Loo Loo will give you a hand..........

i hope so!!!!!!!

i've already bagged 3 binbags of clothes for the charity shop...i'm being ruthless!

[Deepie]

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ahh thanks SnV.....yes, we've managed to turn it into a positive step
thanks for your kind words

i'd best get packing x

Loo Loo will give you a hand..........

[confused76]

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Hi Confused

The worst thing you could have done was make no decision at all and let events overwhelm you.

You've taken positive action, and made a strong decision thats best for you and your family which is going to be great for you.

Best of luck.........

ahh thanks SnV.....yes, we've managed to turn it into a positive step
thanks for your kind words

i'd best get packing x

[SaltnVinegar]

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Hi Confused

The worst thing you could have done was make no decision at all and let events overwhelm you.

You've taken positive action, and made a strong decision thats best for you and your family which is going to be great for you.

Best of luck.........

[confused76]

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Look after yourself conf..... Best of luck

thank you

[Deepie]

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Look after yourself conf..... Best of luck

[confused76]

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Thank you to everyone who has responded to this thread with helpful information and kind words. I thought i should update with what has happened.....

As i mentioned earlier, we were thinking of moving in with family, we have decided to go ahead with this. We really want to save some money and be in a position one day where we can get enough of a deposit together to buy a house. While we're renting we can't add to our savings, so this is the plan!

We are absolutely sick to the back teeth of being at the mercy of terrible landlords, i don't think i could stomach another one!

With regard to the repossession, we decided that as we can move in with family pretty much straight away then we didn't want to get involved with the repossession hearing. I suffer with anxiety, and for those few days where i thought we'd have to speak to the mortgage company and go to court i felt incredibly unwell. We just didn't need the upset.

I think if we were having to find somewhere to live in the rental market, then going to court and getting extra time to move would have been beneficial. However, for us it would have caused unneccessary upset.

Anyway, we have been given 28 days to vacate...we're planning on moving well before then so it's no longer an issue.

Thanks to everyone who took the time to contribute to this thread, hopefully it will be of some use to someone in future if need be.
x

[thechippy]

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Good luck with all this.

Hope 2012 turns out better for you....

[cymruambyth]

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It's beyond tea and g & t time!

[PlanB]

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Actually, this time of night, it's supper !

At this time of night in my home it's not tea, supper or dinner, it's a take-away

[confused76]

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It's dinner NOT tea.... Good job Loo Loo 's not about

Actually, this time of night, it's supper !

cheeky monkeys

[diddlydee]

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Actually, this time of night, it's supper !