Re: Restrictions ex wife and planning gain
That's because I'm an embittered ex-wife so I know exactly what's going through your ex-wife's head at the moment. My divorce lasted longer than my marriage so I've got plenty of experience in this area.
It's never about money, it's always about emotions. Maybe your ex-wife doesn't want closure because she'll miss having you around if that happens. As long as you are tied together by that property deal you'll never be rid of her. She knows you need her to sign documents and agreements so she enjoys having power over you.
Pay her off if you can, and the sooner the better. Don't be too hung-up on whether the amount you have to pay or promise to pay is fair or not. If it buys you your freedom it'll be worth every penny.
Originally posted by ohitsonlyme
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It's never about money, it's always about emotions. Maybe your ex-wife doesn't want closure because she'll miss having you around if that happens. As long as you are tied together by that property deal you'll never be rid of her. She knows you need her to sign documents and agreements so she enjoys having power over you.
Pay her off if you can, and the sooner the better. Don't be too hung-up on whether the amount you have to pay or promise to pay is fair or not. If it buys you your freedom it'll be worth every penny.
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